In the context of Gestalt therapy, how do you feel about confrontation in a counseling environment?

One of the key tools of Gestalt therapy is confrontation (holding up the mirror). In the context of Gestalt therapy, how do you feel about confrontation in a counseling environment? What would it take for a therapist (i.e. YOU) to be comfortable and effective in confronting without abusing his/her clients?
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